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My thoughts and insights on men and woman dating, and the relationships.
They say that more then 50% of marriages will end up breaking up. For the remaining 50%, how many of those are happy and fulfilling relationships? I am sure many of them stay together for convenience, finances and or because they have kids. You have one life why would you not want to be happy! Especially if you have kids. You and your partner want to miserable that is fine, that is your choice!
But don’t put your kids through that dysfunction and alter what their journey can be. A child’s forming years are essential and based on the foundation they will develop a certain way mentally, it will dictate the choices. Choices that may alter their lives forever and others who paths they cross. A ripple effect can be a negative thing with the wrong mindset but a great thing with a positive one. They need a positive nurturing environment to grow in.
The worlds is a different place, maybe it is time for a different approach. How different are men and woman? We are not that different, we both want the same things. There is saying a man’s best friend is a dog, why...loyalty. And a woman’s best friend is a diamond, hold that thought! Yet many woman have dogs/cats...why?... loyalty. So as you can see they both want the same thing. What gets in the way?
It is the diamond! You come here with nothing leave with nothing. Materialism can make you artificially happy but also side track you from true happiness. It can be a double edge sword with poison at one end. Make sure you have the right mindset so it does not hurt you and others.
There are two things that can take over a person and a persons judgement and keep them from true happiness. That is sex and money, both are beautiful things that can help this life and soul experience. But if it becomes your main focus it will keep you from truly being happy.
Typically speaking men are out for sex and woman like nice extravagant things which you need money for. If focus is just getting money and sex and it consumes you it will dictate your actions. Divide men and woman and hurt others most importantly it will hurt you in the long run. Many guys feel they need all this excess money just to land a woman and will do whatever to get it, even break the law. Unfortunately materialism and its quest is designed to keep us down and control us, break free from it! Don’t get me wrong ladies, your man needs to carry his own and have a plan so you can both can build together. Look at the level he is at and see if he is capable, especially if he wants to be the one to give you the family you may seek. The right man will appreciate a woman that builds him. The right man will support you so you can be the best version of yourself, so you can get the material things for yourself and feel a true sense of independence and individuality. Individuality is something every woman should embrace as for they have a lot put on them to take care of others. Having their own space keeps them grounded and fulfilled.
It starts with the woman.
Why? The imagery shows the gift women have. They give this world life and nurture it. They have a light within them and one they have been given being put on this earth as a woman. A light to help other women, men and children see the pathway to life. With this light woman have, we can see all the beautiful things this world has to offer. That is why is important for woman to stand strong together and uplift other women. Humanity needs it to exist!
Women it is your world!
Be the best version of you and when you are ready pick the best options that will help mold you to be the best version of you. Life is a journey and through experiences you will become the person you strive to be. Experiences such as dating, relationships and or physical experiences. Be careful what you allow into your life for these experiences. You are emotionally wired and things will affect you harder. That is part of the gift you have, it is needed to nurture this world. You would not intentionally put poison in your body. Keep that in mind with men some are like poisons don’t let them in and make you toxic. Don’t let them take away your gift, your light. The world needs you! Keeping in mind the gift you have and the role you have been given as a woman. Why wait for the men to pick you. You pick them! But before you step up, level up and be the best version of yourself at the stage you are in your life and open to possibility's and be willing to embrace them.
Age truly is a number.
Beauty has a very different definition for a girl and a woman. For a woman her beauty is expressed not only by her physical attributes. But also her life experiences. She is refined, molded and is defined. To be defined gives you empowerment. That empowerment enables to you to be beautiful, bold and sexy at a whole new level. A level a girl has not yet achieved but only a woman. "Embrace the levels as your beauty evolves! "
Men you want to be chosen by the women you are attracted to? Well level up! Be the best version of yourself. Know who you are, what you are looking for and and what you can offer and most importantly be confident, secure, and assertive. Be that man she desires and strives to be with. Offer her respect, value her not only physically but mentally and emotionally as well. Be able to see the core of who she is and strives to be. Be the man that can see what is in front of him and not caught up with distractions around him. Keep in mind not all woman may be at a point to value that. So before you offer that, make sure she to levels up to!
Noting is worse then regret of choices you could have made. At that time you didn’t have the knowledge Now you do! So make choices that will level you up. This is where I can help both woman and men. This program will put both of you in control and help you by putting you in the right direction.
I strongly even recommend the program for existing couples as well. It is even more important to take time and invest in your current relationship. We all grow it is important to grow together. This program will help you rediscover each other and rekindle and build on what is already amazing about what you two have and share.
Ladies interested in someone what is the next step?
Be logical, practical then emotional!
Men be ready for possibilities.
*YOU are where It starts!
What are you looking for?
Are you ready for it mentally, physically and financially?
*PRE DATE QUESTIONS
Important before you invest time with a man. Find out what options he is open to. Don't expect things from men/women who are not willing to offer it and capable of it. It just leads to disappointment and resentment.
Ask questions to see if this is someone you want to date and am open to a possible relationship with. After this meeting you will know what direction to go. Potential relationship route. Or if you find that is not a path. Maybe just friends with benefits, just friends, networking or nothing at all. Next depends on what you decided.
*The 3 Dates
Once the three dates are complete each is a step. The 4rth step is complete. If the dates worked out and you see potential, then move to step 5.
*Meet His Family And Friends.
This is important as it gives you an insight on who he is and his circle. If you end up in a relationship, his circle will become your circle. There is a lot you will learn in this process. When you meet his family, extended family and friends. Let them know you are both seeing each other and want to see where it will take the two of you. And meeting the family and friends is apart of the process to see the compatibility.
After the family, and friend process you will have an idea if this is a guy you potentially can be with.
To many woman make life changes to early without knowing enough about the guy. You don't change a thing until you know that this is something you want and will fit you. Going through this process you get know if he fits. Then you can make changes that will establish the relationship foundation and nurture it so it can grow and be strong.
This process will now give more reassurance and make your connection deeper. Sometimes when a woman does not have this reassurance it brings in doubt from previous experiences and relationships. It could sabotage something that could be a soul connection. ✨️
Men why do you bring the potential partner into your circle to see if she fits. A woman has many options coming at her. She has been told many things and unfortunately
may have have been lied to and mislead. A mans actions speaks much louder then words.
Where To Start?
I can be your guide to help you through this journey. Let me guide you so you can represent yourself in the highest form you are. Your private confidential booked consultation is not rushed. My goal is to complete it and make sure you are ready. The time that it takes is different for everyone. Invest in the most important thing in your life, that is you! Investing in the wrong man or woman may not only cost you mentality, possibly physically and or financially. We will start off by discussing:
1) Personal History
-Previous relationships and experiences.
-What you liked and didn't like?
-What you are wanting that is different from what you have experienced?
-What was missing and challenges you experienced?
2) Knowledge & Insights
-We will go over a series of developed topics and have discussions in regards to dating, relationships, marriage, and family.
3)Getting to Know Yourself Pre Date Questions
Prior to your appointment you get a developed series of questions to answer. This is designed to get to know yourself and what you are looking for and your current mindsets. To get you ready for this journey. We will go through the pre date questions answers so you know where you stand on them. And customize it with questions that you may want to add in. I will help you develop questions that are important to you and qualities you seek that you can cover with your potential partner.
4) The 3 Dates
Go through the 3 dates process and give you insights that will guide you to ensure these meetings will put you in control so you are confident, secure and assertive. Be in a mindset where you will be able to represent yourself in the best light possible and showcase what you can offer as a potential partner.
5) The Circle
Getting to know the mans circle, family and friends. Go through a list of questions that will help you understand the relationship with family and friends and their dynamic.
The goal is to take a logical and practical approach. Your time and mental health is very important, you have to protect it. That is why this process will help put you in control and keep your emotion in a neutral mindset.
You want someone who will build you not break you. Walk into a new relationship free and clear of any negatives from previous ones. A new blank sheet is ready for a new story. Make it an amazing memorable one.
I will also provide you a pdf on dating ideas and romantic tips. Keeping your love life exciting is a key healthy element experience and will provide you with a balance in your life. With our day to day lives many of us have no time to be creative or for some it is not a strong point. Your heart is in the right place but you are not sure how to express your feelings. Love can last a life time only if you and your lover keep it alive! These 2 pdfs can be a great resource.
The consultation, is as unique as you. This entire process is only $495 plus a $5 payment processing fee. I call this The High 5 Dating Method. The process for the guys who met a woman, and for the woman the process a man goes through to see if he fits. This is the center of it all!
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